One can never succeed without at least trying. The faster you can deal with failure, the faster you will be ready for success. Each and every failure in life is a building block to success. There are some people who have a hard time dealing with failure and therefore never try anything. The result of this is NOTHING. Nothing can happen without action. Life is all about action and taking risks.
You need to accept that failure is a part of life. If you have failed at something then you need to accept it and move on, at least you tried in the first place. You are not the only person who has ever failed at something. It happens to all of us.
Your thoughts and plans really need to be combined with action to produce a result. By focusing on your goals and dreams can provide the energy and motivation for taking action. If you are lacking motivation, don’t wait for it to appear. Take action and watch your energy and motivation flourish. Act on your goals every day and make them a top priority.
Learning to change your thoughts is going to take time and practice. It will not be something that you can change overnight. Being aware is definitely the first step and at first you might have to keep reminding yourself, but eventually, it will become your new habit and you will not have to think about it anymore.